The picture above says it all! After a particularly stressful week, I needed a treat! So, I took myself out to lunch.
At least once a week, I hop on the train and travel 2 stops to “Ritzyville” for grocery shopping and running other errands. I usually grab a coffee and sometimes a snack while there.
Last week, I went on a sunny Friday. Ritzyville must have one restaurant per resident! I chose one that held special meaning although I’d never eaten there myself.
A very good friend had a stroke in late January; she is in a long-term care/rehab facility making progress on regaining her speech, use of her right side, and learning to do things left-handed. For her, I do things we enjoyed, go places she loved to visit, while talking (in my head) to her as if she was there. Later, I make her smile when I tell her about my adventures, in person, on the phone, or by the cards I send regularly.
When she and her cadre of travel/tour friends would get together, they often frequented the place I had my special lunch. I knew she will enjoy hearing about my experience.
It was wonderful. Too windy to eat outside despite the sunny weather (after a week of storms), I had a window seat in an empty section of the restaurant. (I still prefer to be separate from other diners). The waitress was excellent – she had to make a trek to serve me, but she popped in at all the right moments.
I was craving pub fare – for me fish and chips (I come from Atlantic Canada where the fish and chips are heavenly). The meal was good; the fish was fresh; the fries done just right, several lemon sections to squeeze, and a bottle of malt vinegar for the fries!
And, I’ve yet to share my weekly smile with my friend – she always teased me because if we had lunch out, and fish and chips were on the menu, I couldn’t resist. Usually, though, I asked for extra coleslaw or skipped the fries! Last Friday, to end my week on a smile, I needed those lovely, golden-brown spuds with a splash of malt vinegar. She will smile over this.
My #weeklysmile contribution to Trent’s #weeklysmile.
Drop by Trent’s blog, read the parameters, and then share your weekly smile!
August 11, 2021 at 9:58 am
Your pub lunch of fish and chips with malt vinegar made me smile. I love that you are doing things to share with your friend, that is so sweet and thoughtful. I think it is a great way to share encouragement with your friend during recovery. Great weekly smile, thank you for sharing!
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August 11, 2021 at 10:57 am
Thank you for your kind words! Two other friends and I are going to get together for lunch soon so we can share the gathering with our friend in the rehab facility.
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August 13, 2021 at 7:49 am
I was speaking with my friend this week — her verbalization keeps improving. Two other friends of hers will join me for fish and chips in the near future.
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August 2, 2021 at 5:29 pm
Looks like a great meal! Very nice to help with your friend. I hope her recovery is continuing to go well. I’m sure you sharing your smiles with her helps :)
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August 2, 2021 at 5:07 pm
What a lovely treat and what a lovely way to help your friend 💜💜💜
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August 2, 2021 at 4:22 pm
Cheers for fish and chips!
Hope they are working on your home repairs
On Mon, Aug 2, 2021 at 12:12 PM Lorraine’s frilly freudian slip wrote:
> Lorraine posted: ” The picture above says it all! After a particularly > stressful week, I needed a treat! So, I took myself out to lunch. At least > once a week, I hop on the train and travel 2 stops to “Ritzyville” for > grocery shopping and running other errands. I usua” >
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August 3, 2021 at 12:54 am
Well, it’s a month tomorrow that the tree limb fell, and we are no closer to having our roof repaired! The property owner seems to have had a mental/emotional breakdown, is behaving erratically, irrationally, and belligerently. Thinking we’ll have to move because it doesn’t look like the roof will ever be repaired. Good luck finding new tenants with holes in the roof!
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