On this last day of 2017, for the last mlmm writing prompt of the year, Yves asks:
“Reflect on a New Year’s resolution that you kept. How did it change your life? Please go into detail about your motives and the strategies that led to your success.
Have you ever been inspired/moved by someone else’s New Year’s resolution?
Why are you against or for making New Year’s resolutions? If you are pro resolutions feel free to share your own successes/failures and current resolutions.
Why do so many of our New Year’s resolutions fail?
What factors do you think contribute to the success of a New Year’s resolution?
Reflect on your own personal resources. List both internal and external resources that you draw on for strength.”
She’d stumbled home, a little tipsy from the champagne and company. That quiet hour after all the fantootlers and wuzzduzzlers had been blown, kisses given, promised or forgotten, resolutions sworn then broken.
Unable to sleep, she made a coffee, laced with Kahlua and the last dollop of maple-sugared whipped cream.
As she sipped her treat, she idly wrote foretellings of the coming year. She smiled at some thoughts – so outlandish and outré. A tear or two threatened to blur the ink by times. A grimace replaced grin. When exhausted, and her clock striking yet another new hour in that new year, she folded up the paper, found an envelope, and licked the gluey back without paper-cutting her tongue.
Hours turned to days; weeks to months; then months wound down, like the workings of an eternity clock*, towards the new year. Often, she viewed her life, hovering from the ceiling, unable to feel any realness in what lay below. Or life was a movie, or a play with in the front row or balcony, furiously scribbling revisions on invisiblely-inked scripts or laughing, tearing and throwing up pages like confetti. Brutally, sometimes it was all too real, and her body heaved with dried out sobs as she rocked in the corner.
Close to midnight, she took the bottle of wine out of her fridge. Splurging, she had gone to the elegant wine store in her Sally Ann** coat, and bought something special for her solo new year’s eve. At a Christmas church basement rummage sale, she found the perfect crystal wine glass, not even chipped, that sang when pinged with her fingers .
“Damn,” she sputtered, riffling through her kitchen drawers, “where is did the idiot (me) put it?”; her old Swiss Army knife with the corkscrew attachment. The attached memories it held seemed to weigh her shoulders down even further that year, so she no longer kept it in her pockets.
At the back of the furthest drawer, the one half hidden by her ancient fridge, she found the battered knife, and an envelope. Taking both to the table in her tiny kitchen where driveway-level windows were half-covered with dirty piles of snow, she first opened the wine. The pale yellow splashed against the breath-thin sides of her glass. She closed her eyes and took that heavenly first sip – of sweetness and citrus; wildflowers and herbs; of joy without measure.
Then, curious, she tore the edge of the crumpled envelope pulling out a multi-folded piece of paper covered with her careful printing. What Will Happen This Year ran the uninspired, non-creative title, followed by a list of events, suppositions, predictions, assurances, fears, and nightmares.
To a one, these were the stories of her year. . . .
I have told this story, in various versions before. It is based on a strange set of predictions, rather than resolutions, I made one New Year’s Eve. I really did forget – I didn’t manipulate that year to fit the list I found crunched up at the back of a drawer the following New Year’s Eve.
As I discussed with a friend, my younger self was more in tune with the cosmos, it seems, and many strange, eerie, serendipitous phenomena often occurred. I’m not sure if as a result increasing physical and emotional pain, growing older (children are more apt to see fairies; the silver sleigh bell rings only for some in The Polar Express), more jaded, cynical and despondent, but I don’t “know” or “sense” things like I once did.
Oh, I “see” negativity, “sense” the worst, and project it. But flashes of pleasant déjà vu are fewer, dreamscapes are found in real world geography less, fate intervening in mysteriously wonderful ways seem more like ghosts of New Year’s Past.
May 2018 be the year we forgive, forget, and, most of all, embrace.
* also known as anniversary or 400 day clocks, (see image above). I felt my grandmother’s was an “eternity” clock, as it seemed like time there lasted an infernal eternity.
** “nickname” for the Salvation Army. Salvation Army raises money through sales at it’s thrift shops.
December 31, 2017 at 11:52 pm
Happy New Year! The change in years mark a chance to begin again. Rituals make more of whom we think we are than what the ritual may produce
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January 1, 2018 at 11:42 am
Yes, happy new year to you, as well. No rituals here; just trying to stay awake to mid-night!
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January 1, 2018 at 3:14 pm
Snacks & drinks at home. Just like last year
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December 31, 2017 at 4:29 pm
Very interesting about the predictions! I have made some predictions in my time and I am can be eerily good at reading people close to me. But anytime I have taken any sort of psychic test I have gotten every answer wrong which I suppose is weird in itself since people guessing would naturally get more than 0% haha I also never win lotteries, my daughter doesn’t either. Even those kid lotteries with a super high chance of winning, often she is the only child who doesn’t win! I believe all my lottery winning luck is being used to keep my super clumsy self alive
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December 31, 2017 at 5:04 pm
As for my lottery luck — we call them scratch and lose tickets for a reason!
Wishing you and your family all the best of 2018.
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January 1, 2018 at 10:37 am
Hubby is good at winning small amounts, usually enough for another card haha
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January 1, 2018 at 11:41 am
Well, at least he isn’t too deep into the losing side, lol.
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January 1, 2018 at 1:21 pm
I sometimes think my lottery card will read in the negatives lol
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December 31, 2017 at 4:23 pm
Bringing in the New Year alone can bring about weird thoughts, that is if you allow such things, but you are right lets hope 2018 can be ‘the year we forgive, forget, and, most of all, embrace.’ Happy New Year Lorraine, 2018 has started ok so far, its only 8.30am so I guess I have to give it a chance. Take care.
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December 31, 2017 at 5:01 pm
I smiled and grabbed a Kleenex after reading your new year’s eve “odd couple” story.
May 2018 find your hand in that of someone you love.
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December 31, 2017 at 5:24 pm
Thank you Lorraine…
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